I believe in living purposefully, not reactively. Although I haven’t decided yet, I’m not quite sure if watching video after recommended video of cats doing funny things on YouTube everyday is part of my own definition of living purposefully, although maybe it is for others. If you asked me what I thought my purpose in life was, or what is the purpose of anyone’s life, life in general, I wouldn’t quite know what to tell you, although I have tried to research it on Wikipedia.
When I was younger, much like many other kids my age, I’m sure, I always asked my parents for things – more things. I always needed more things. A couple notable things come to mind – Nintendo 64 and cable TV. As a kid, all my friends had Nintendo 64 and they all had cable TV at their house, and man, did that make them cool. I thought that was the coolest thing ever. Their houses were the places to hang out. In my own naive opinion, my house was boring and had literally nothing to do. Even as years went on, PlayStation 2 came out, Xbox, you name it, and I’m pretty sure I asked my parents for just about every gaming system ever made, maybe except for Atari, but only because I completely missed the boat on that one and had no clue what that even was for awhile. Needless to say, my parents declined every request, plead, and logical argument I could throw at them, and to this day, I couldn’t be more thankful. You may be asking: what ever did you do with all that free time during your childhood when you could have been playing video games or watching TV like a normal person? You poor thing, how did you survive? The answer? I got some hobbies. I got some interests. I chose to do things because they felt rewarding to me, not just to take up time. While I admit that there isn’t anything necessarily wrong with video games or TV, the essential absence of them from my childhood, especially with my friends being way cooler than me because of them, forced me to analyze my dilemma, which led to taking a better look at the opportunities out there just waiting for me.
Something that I often tell people is that I never get bored. Ever. And I feel that’s because I always try to see opportunity – opportunity for growth, opportunity to work on a skill, work on a hobby, or just sit and appreciate the world around me. I don’t like to wait. I believe in action, in choosing – you always have a choice. I believe in having a zesty, passionate, adventurous life…because I want to. Like I said, I don’t know what my purpose is, but that isn’t going to stop me from living like I do. This I believe.